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10 Things To Do When You’re Depressed

by Daniel Bateson 21 August 2017in Communication, Depersonalization, Depression, Domestic Violence and Abuse, Family Issues, Grieving, Mental Illness No comment

Depression is a challenging, sometimes debilitating mental illness, but there is hope. It’s difficult to pull yourself out of depression, but following these 10 steps might make it a little easier.

This article was originally published on FamilyShare.com, which you can find here.

1. Get some exercise
Research shows that regular exercise or physical activity is an effective anti-depressant. Dr. Michael Craig Miller says, “For some people [exercise] works as well as antidepressants, although exercise alone isn’t enough for someone with severe depression.”

2. Give yourself structure
Keeping a regular schedule promotes a sense of stability, predictability and consistency. Wake up, go to bed, eat your meals and go to work at the same time to start maintaining structure in your life.

3. Break large goals into smaller goals
Depression has a way of making even the simplest tasks seem overwhelming. In order to make a goal more attainable, break it up into smaller goals. For example, going to work in the morning can seem daunting to someone who has depression, so don’t make that your goal.
Instead, set a goal to get in the shower by a certain time. Then make a second goal to brush your teeth. Third, get dressed. These small goals will eventually lead to the bigger goal – getting to work.

4. Maintain a healthy diet
You are what you eat. If you nourish your body, you nourish your mind. Physical health can encourage mental health and vice versa.

5. Keep a journal
It’s important to process your feelings. Don’t feel limited to a journal – anything can work. For some, keeping a journal is an effective way to work through thoughts and feelings. If you don’t feel like you can talk to another person, you can always write about what you’re feeling.

6. Channel your depression
There is a strong connection between depression and creativity. A creative outlet allows you to process your feelings. Sometimes words can’t express what you’re feeling, but a painting, dance routine or sculpture can.

7. Shine a light
The expression “You’re as sick as your secrets” fits well with depression. Depression thrives in the dark. When you isolate yourself from others and keep your depression secret, it’s easier for your depression to thrive. Break the cycle of secrets and be honest about what you are experiencing with others.

8. Find community
It’s hard to overcome depression alone. Reach out to another person for support and help. This may feel uncomfortable, but staying in your comfort zone is part of the problem. Connecting with others might sound scary, but the risk is worth it. Community provides a person with a sense of belonging, practical and emotional support, an outlet for them to vent and opportunities for the individual to support others.

9. Challenge your thinking
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is a model of therapy that is highly effective in treating Major Depressive Disorder. There are many books, workbooks, articles and programs that are helpful for people with depression.

10. Consider counseling
Talking to a counselor is a great way to cope with depression. Find a counselor you’re comfortable with and trust so you can talk through whatever you need to. They’re there to help you, and they help people overcome depression every day. If you have depression or think you might, it’s never too late to get help. You deserve to be happy, so take these 10 steps and start your better life.

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Written by Daniel Bates

Daniel is a licensed therapist who primarily works with teens and families in the juvenile justice system in addition to having extensive experience with addicts. He has two masters in counseling and theology. In the future, he plans on applying to PhD programs. He is also an aspiring writer. In his spare time, Dan loves to write, paint and podcast.

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