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Family Crisis Guidebook Now Available!

by Daniel Bateson 24 August 2018in Communication, Domestic Violence and Abuse, Family Issues, Marriage, Mental Health Disorder, Mental Illness, Parenting, Relationships, Self-Help No comment

A family crisis is like navigating a treacherous mountain range with no map. For all the effort expended getting back to the path, you manage to find yourself more lost and stuck. Fear leads to desperation, which will only make the crisis worst over time. What if you came across a guidebook for lost travelers trying to find their way back? Family Crisis Guidebook will help you and your family navigate through a relational, addiction and or mental health crisis in ways that will not only help you out of a bad situation, but will help your family achieve sustained change. Change is the only true antidote to future crises. If your family does not take the opportunity for change, the crisis is bound to rear its ugly head, again and again. This book will help you use the crisis for the opportunity it is, a springboard for growth.

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The Monkey On Your Back: 10 Ways to Overcome Social Anxiety

by Daniel Bateson 28 March 2018in Anxiety, Counseling, Mental Health Disorder, Mental Illness, Psychology, Reflection, Self-Help, Thinking Errors No comment

Social anxiety is a lot like a monkey on your back. It’s a constantly distracting and disruptive presence that you can’t see. And it makes the very important things of connecting with others extremely challenging. So, if you like many others, struggle with social anxiety, read this blog. It will help! It you want to get the social anxiety monkey off your back it is imperative that you become aware of what you are feeling, why you are feeling that way, and how that feeling affects your behavior and your thinking. Below are steps how you can manage and even thrive in the face of social anxiety.

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Gifts For Seniors To Help Their Health

by Daniel Bateson 21 December 2017in Depression, Mental Illness, Relationships, Self-Help, Seniors 2 comments

Now that the holidays are close, it’s time to hit the mall and do some shopping. No matter what traditions you have in the holiday season, getting presents for your loved ones is almost always one of them.

Kids are easy to buy for. Pick up some games or movies, and you’re done. But what about the seniors in your life? They deserve a good gift as much as anyone, especially since they often have trouble with loneliness and health. In fact, gifts that help seniors improve their health can be just the thing they need. But what kinds of health issues do seniors face?

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The Gift of Reconciling with Your Recovering Parent this Holiday Season

by Daniel Bateson 9 November 2017in Communication, Depression, Family Issues, Grieving, Mental Health Disorder, Mental Illness, Parenting, Reflection, Relationships, Self-Help, Seniors No comment

With the holidays approaching you might be considering building a bridge to your parent.  Family relationships can be complicated, and if your senior parent is a recovering addict things can be especially overwhelming.  If you aren’t sure where to start, here is some great advice.

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10 Things To Do When You’re Depressed

by Daniel Bateson 21 August 2017in Communication, Depersonalization, Depression, Domestic Violence and Abuse, Family Issues, Grieving, Mental Illness No comment

Depression is a challenging, sometimes debilitating mental illness, but there is hope. It’s difficult to pull yourself out of depression, but following these 10 steps might make it a little easier.

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The 5 Characteristics and Benefits of Assertiveness

by Daniel Bateson 18 August 2017in Communication, Dating Couples, Domestic Violence and Abuse, Family Issues, Marriage, Mental Illness, Parenting, Premarital Couples, Reflection, Relationships, Self-Help, Shame, Therapy One comment

 

 

 

1. Aggressive—Assertive—Passive: People tend to fall on a spectrum of aggressive to passive in their style of communication and how they engage with others. An aggressive person is someone who believes they are entitled to take what they want. They are direct, have little regard for the feelings of others and don’t mind sharing their feelings. They don’t equivocate when addressing a problem or giving feedback. Typically, the aggressive person creates resentment in others. On the other end of the spectrum is the passive person, which is someone who ignores their needs, is indirect, is uncomfortable giving feedback, shies away from addressing problems. This style results in the passive person building resentment towards others since their needs never are met or addressed. Neither the aggressive or passive style promotes healthy relationships. When I work with clients, I recommend the assertive style, which is a person who can be direct and straightforward in addressing problems. They don’t shy away from giving feedback, advocating for their needs. And they do all these things in a manner that is diplomatic and respectful, but doesn’t deny or dismiss truth. The assertive person can communicate wants and desires without attacking others. Assertiveness promotes health in individuals and in relationships.

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8 Surprising Dynamics about Personality

by Daniel Bateson 5 August 2017in Mental Health Disorder, Mental Illness, Personality, Psychology, Reflection, Self-Help No comment

Everywhere you look, people are talking about their personality, the personality of others, taking personality quizzes or assessing the personalities of celebrities. We are obsessed with personality in our culture, but how much do those in our culture really know about personality. The following list of 8 Dynamics of Personality may surprise you.

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Thinking Errors and How to Fix Them

by Daniel Bateson 29 January 2017in Counseling, Depression, Mental Health Disorder, Mental Illness, Psychology, Reflection, Reframing, Relationships, Self-Help, Therapy, Thinking Errors No comment

If you were out hiking and came across a stream, would you immediately start drinking? What if the water was contaminated? If the water was questionable, you wouldn’t drink, right? But you need water so what do you do? Many hikers don’t even worry about contaminants because they have filters, which take out the bad and leave the good. But what if your filter doesn’t work? How can you trust your water? Remove the word water and replace it with thoughts.

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Even A Superhero Needs Counseling Book Launch

by Daniel Bateson 20 December 2016in Book, Comic Books, Counseling, Mental Illness, Psychology, Reflection, Relationships, Self-Help, Thinking Errors No comment

Looking for that perfect Christmas gift for your comic book loving friend or family member? Look no further! Fans of the Marvel and DC movies and comics will love “Even A Superhero Needs Counseling.” In it you will find an in-depth guide to understanding your favorite comic book character from a psychological perspective while providing you with relevant and insightful advice. In other words, by learning more about Thor, the Hulk, Wonder Woman, Stephen Strange, Superman and many more, you can learn more about yourself. Comic books aren’t just entertainment; they can be a window into the strengths and weaknesses of humanity.

Daniel Bates is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who offers his expert counsel for superhero, supervillain and readers alike. In each chapter, you’ll find:

  • An overview of major comic book character’s origin story, arch-enemies, and dynamics of their psychology.
  • A mental health diagnosis based on the relevant details of the character’s symptoms.
  • What mental health treatment would consist of based on the diagnosis and how it would help their life.
  • And, most importantly, how your favorite comic book character’s story can be informative for you own personal growth.

So, if you struggle with anxiety you’re in good company, Superman can relate. If you’ve had an addiction, you and Tony Stark could go to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting together. Or, if you’ve ever had relationship problems, the Scarlet Witch can commiserate with you. Whatever the problem, you will find a superhero or supervillain that shares your struggle. And it is through their stories, you can find help for yours.

Click on the link to learn more or purchase on Amazon. The book is now available in paperback and the Kindle version is available for pre-order.

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What Doctor Strange Teaches Us About Spirituality

by Daniel Bateson 30 November 2016in Book, Comic Books, Creativity, Mental Health Disorder, Mental Illness, Personal Essay, Philosophy, Psychology, Reflection, Relationships, Self-Help, Spiritual Disciplines, Spirituality, Transcendent Moments, Uncategorized No comment

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Doctor Strange, sorcerer supreme, master of black magic, former gifted neurosurgeon brings the “wiz” to “wizard.” Sorry, that was corny, but I couldn’t help myself. Stephen Strange, world-renowned surgeon, lost the use of his hands in a tragic car accident. Seeking salvation, he traverses the Himalayas to seek out a spiritual master. Learning the mystical arts, Stephen Strange transforms into Doctor Strange, one of the most powerful sorcerers on the planet. He possesses many tools in his arsenal, including the Cloak of Levitation, Eye of Agamotto, and the Book of Vishanti. With these powerful tools, Doctor Strange defends this reality from inter-dimensional beings seeking power, dominion and control over Earth.

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